Holidays

So I am not one that is all cheery about the holidays. I guess what really throws my holidays off is that I dont have parents to share it with. The sad part about it is they aren't even dead. My mom sold me to my dad for like 400.00. I have not talked to my dad in a year because of that thing he is married too. He has no concern for his daughter or his grandson.

I guess what gets me the most is that i grew up a daddy's girl so it really seems to put a pain in my heart when it comes to the holidays. It just all hits a sour note with me.

I am very glad for my little boy he is the biggest joy! He makes my holidays alot better.

Some people amaze me.

Some people really amaze me! You can have people that break the law all the time. They can get away with breaking court order, not paying taxes, speeding, etc. Now people like me, can't get away with anything. The minute I speed I would get pulled over in a heart beat even if it is 5 miles over.

Another thing that gets me is cops. I love cops and glad we have them to protect us but they seem to think that none of the laws pertain to them. I know several of cops that have beat their wives howevever, nothing happens to them. Lets not forget they can speed all they want even when there is not an emergency.

I just don't get it!

Food for thought

Okay so here is another one of my thoughts that I feel very strong about. People receiving food stamps ande such should have to take ramdom drug screens. I dont know how many people I have heard say why do they need a job the state pays for them for sitting on their butt. Wow....are you kidding me! Harding working people like my husband and everyone else that has a job manage to pay bills and food.

The biggest problem I see when honest hard working people get in a bind and need that little bit of extra help they get turned down. They get turned down because they get off butts and go to work and try to make something of themselves. So apparently you can only get help from the state if you are too lazy to get off your butt and get jobs.

Now grantede it I know that some people that have it really do need it. However, look around at most of them they are very capable of working just like everyone else but just don't. They much rather a hand out instead of doing a little hard work to take care of things themselves.

Little new at this!

Okay so I am a little new at all of this. So first let me tell you a little about me. I am a very out spoken person. I do not mean to hurt people feeling with the things I say but what can I say some times the truth hurts. I am a family person! I love my husband and my little boy. Nothing in the world is more important than them. With that being said I want to discuss a very important subject that needs to be addressed.

It gets on my nerves to see people that have childern but always put their children last. My my opinion children are the greatest blessing ever. They are challenging but yet still keep us grounded. There are so many people in this world who are struggling to have kids and would give anything to be the parents they have always dream of. Then you have some people that already have kids but shouldn't have. These are the one that want other people to raise their children and just want to see them and "play mommy or daddy" when it is convient for them.

I am sorry but that isn't the way life goes. When you have children you are taking responsiblity to care for them and their needs. That usually means your life takes a step down while your children's life takes first place. Children need a stable enviornment. They need lots of love and stability. They do not need broken promises and parents to pop in and out of their lives.